For if for everything in life it also must have a certain art. Anyone can afford to give you advice without having asked nisiquera even without having shown signs of needing it and yet you give it and sometimes not the most appropriate way.
need know the time in which a person needs it because otherwise you may even be able to do damage with those "well meaning" advice.
In recent weeks I filled my bag unsolicited advice yet received on various topics related to Antonio. In order to thank is not that the advice is not to be the wisest person in the world that never needs advice, not that it is an arrogant and not using them, but there are issues on which no bad intention can be upsetting people who get an opinion.
These are the tips received lately:
Right out of the room ..... Antonio has
and eight months and when at certain times I say that still sleeps with us is as if he had spoken in Chinese, "even sleep with him," my mother, it will cost you a win out of the room, "is too old to continue sleeping with you, "when you want it going to have many problems "..... these and many more beads I've been listening every day and that not too many times when he wakes up at night to take and leave it sleeping with us in bed .......
is true that we have some time thinking through what the best time to take him to his room, but the truth to me I did not want anything because I love waking up at night and hear their noises while sleeping or listening to your breathing right next to my bed. I also
is much more comfortable when asked at night, take it from the bed to keep me up to another room to breastfeed. However
this past week have been a little resfriadillos and at night with coughing woke him and this weekend we have gone to her room to see if he rested better and Ohhhhhhhhhh catastrophic surprise all those predictions have not been met for nothing. Wears and three nights sleeping alone and has stayed at a stretch, is more in the morning when he wakes up he is amazed at the pictures your dad was in the room and with a smile from ear to ear when we appear at his side.
breastfeed ......
I can not even imagine the comments that come up when I comment that "even" I give the chest to Antonio, "but why not leave it and if it is too old," it will continue even with this heavy, "and you're not tired ",.... and many, many, many more comments of all kinds.
And the truth is sometimes so much to hear over and over again the same, I am tempted to leave but when I look like from game to game Antonio is looking to take a sip of milk or when he looks with his little eyes and that half-smile when nursing or when you see it as it is stayed attached to the breast after the last shot before putting it in its cradle or when you get the comfort you are looking at that particular time you're crying, so I think for those reasons and for the benefit it is providing will continue until he decides quit. But as I stop breast-Antonio is a great gift if you do day to day as well when I see how she enjoys when it is in my lap ........ in short, that does not seem right. Also think of those mothers who could not do it for health reasons, because nature has not allowed or because they have not been able to reconcile with his return to work and I would have liked and I leave that I can do, I think very selfish of me part.
will not know why but having a child is given to everyone you advice about what is good or bad you are doing, what you should not do with food, with the games, with sleep. ..... My like to investigate, search, and above all they ask and I like talking to moms who are ahead of me on what they have done or left undone on various topics, that have done, what they have Last but like everything else over the years you learn who is a good "counselor" who in his mind to help desayuda. "
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